2023-07-05

BSS Fruit of the Spirit #1 Love

BSS  Fruit of the Spirit #1 Love

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1 What is Love?

Love is not a feeling but a will, a decision to do.

The feeling eventually comes.

  • 1 Corinthians 13:4-7:
    • Love is & always
      • patient
        • #8 gentleness
      • kind
        • #5 kindness,
      • rejoices with the truth
        • #2 joy,
        • #11 truth
      • protects
        • #6 goodness,
      • trusts
        • #7 faithfulness,
      • hopes
        • #7 faithfulness,
      • perseveres
        • #4 forbearance,
    • Love does NOT
      • envy
        • #3 peace,
      • boast
        • #12 humility,
      • proud
        • #12 humility,
      • dishonor others
        • #6 goodness,
      • self-seeking
        • #6 goodness,
      • easily angered
        • #9 self-control.
      • record of wrongs
        • #13 Forgiving
      • delight in evil
        • #10 righteousness
  • Romans 12:9-10:
    • "Love must be sincere
      • Hate what is evil;

        Love has hate - hate evil & lies because they destroy life

      • cling to what is good.

      • Be devoted to one another in love.

        Love is loyalty

      • Honor one another above yourselves."

        Love is Honoring others

2 Love Initiates
  • 1 John 4:19
    • We love because He first loved us.

  • John 3:16:
    • "For God so loved the world that
      • he gave his one and only Son,

        • that whoever believes in him shall not perish but have eternal life."

3 Love God & Others
  • Matthew 22:37-39:
    • "Jesus replied: 'Love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your mind.' This is the first and greatest commandment. And the second is like it: 'Love your neighbor as yourself.'"
  • 1 Peter 4:8:
    • "Above all, love each other deeply,
      • because love covers over a multitude of sins."

        Love forgives, repairs & saves

4 Love as God Loves Us
  • 1 John 4:7-8:
    • "Dear friends, let us love one another, for love comes from God.
      • Everyone who loves has been born of God and knows God.
      • Whoever does not love does not know God, because God is love."
  • John 15:12:
    • "My command is this: Love each other as I have loved you."
5 Love Binds
  • Colossians 3:14:
    • "And over all these virtues put on love, which binds them all together in perfect unity."
  • Proverbs 10:12:
    • "Hatred stirs up conflict, but love covers over all wrongs."
6 Love overcomes Fear
  • 1 John 4:18
    • "There is no fear in love. But perfect love drives out fear, because fear has to do with punishment. The one who fears is not made perfect in love.
  • Romans 13:10:
    • "Love does no harm to a neighbor. Therefore love is the fulfillment of the law."
7 Love in Action
  • 1 Corinthians 16:14:
    • "Do everything in love."
  • 1 John 3:18:
    • "Dear children, let us not love with words or speech but with actions and in truth."
8 Love is Unconditional
  • Romans 5:8:
    • "But God demonstrates his own love for us in this: While we were still sinners, Christ died for us."

      Even when we reject God, Christ died for us.

  • Ephesians 5:25:
    • "Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her."

      Love is sacrificing.

9 Love is a Commitment:
  • Ruth 1:16-17:
    • "But Ruth replied, 'Don’t urge me to leave you or to turn back from you. Where you go I will go, and where you stay I will stay. Your people will be my people and your God my God. Where you die I will die, and there I will be buried. May the Lord deal with me, be it ever so severely, if even death separates you and me.'"

      Always with You no matter what.

  • Mark 10:9:
    • "Therefore what God has joined together, let no one separate."

      It is not a feeling but a commitment.

  • Proverbs 17:17:
    • "A friend loves at all times, and a brother is born for a time of adversity."
10 Love is the Greatest
  • 1 Corinthians 13:13:
    • "And now these three remain: faith, hope, and love. But the greatest of these is love."

      Faith and hope are future-oriented.

      Love is NOW. Love transforms and overcomes.

      Love is eternal, and timeless.

Summary:
  • All the virtues of the Fruit of Spirit can be summarized in Love.
  • But love is such an abstract word that needs to be defined more specifically.
  • Love is not a feeling but a will, a decision to do. The feeling eventually comes.
  • The keys are truth, righteousness, goodness, kindness, forgiving, honoring, etc.
  • Love also means hatred for evil and untruth.
  • Love is unconditional. We can't earn it. If you can earn it, then it is a reward
    and a payment for your work. We give it no matter what for right and good and true.
Prayer:
  • May we realize the love of God for us so that we may love with the love that God has done and given to us. May the grace of God enables us to love like Him and glorify Him in our actions. Praise be to God. Amen.

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读经分享 圣灵果子品行#1 爱

1 什么是爱?

爱不是一种感觉,而是一种意愿,一种决定去行动。感觉最终会产生。

哥林多前书 13:4-7:
  • 爱是常常
    • 耐心 - #8 温柔
    • 和善 - #5 仁慈,
    • 喜欢真理 - #2 喜乐,#11 真理
    • 保护 - #6 善良,
    • 信任 - #7 忠诚,
    • 希望 - #7 忠诚,
    • 坚持不懈 - #4 忍耐,
  • 爱不会
    • 嫉妒 - #3 和平,
    • 自夸 - #12 谦卑,
    • 骄傲 - #12 谦卑,
    • 羞辱他人 - #6 善良,
    • 自私 - #6 善良,
    • 容易发怒 - #9 自制力。
    • 记仇 - #13 宽恕
    • 喜欢邪恶 - #10 公义
罗马书 12:9-10

    “爱必须是真诚的,
  • 憎恨邪恶;
    • 爱有憎恨 - 憎恶邪恶和谎言,因为它们破坏生命
  • 坚持善良。
  • 要彼此热切相爱。- 爱就是忠诚。
  • 要彼此尊重,胜过自己。” -爱就是尊重他人。

2 爱是主动
  • 约翰一书 4:19 我们爱,因为他先爱了我们。
  • 约翰福音 3:16:“神爱世人,甚至将他独生子赐给他们,叫一切信他的,不至灭亡,反得永生。”

3 爱神和人
  • 马太福音 22:37-39:“耶稣回答说:“你要全心、全魂、全意爱主你的神。” 这是诫命中的第一,且是最大的。 其次也相仿,就是要爱人如己。”
  • 彼得前书 4:8:“最重要的是,深深地彼此相爱,因为爱能遮掩许多的罪。
    • 爱宽恕,修复和拯救

4 爱如同神爱我们
  • 约翰一书 4:7-8:
    • “亲爱的朋友们,我们应当彼此相爱,因为爱是从神来的。
    • 凡有爱心的,都是由神而生,并且认识神。
    • 不爱的,就不认识神,因为神就是爱。”
  • 约翰福音 15:12:
    • “我这是我给你们的命令,就是要彼此相爱,像我爱你们一样。”
5 爱联结
  • 歌罗西书 3:14:
    • “在这一切之上,要存着爱,因为爱是联络全德的绳索。”
  • 箴言 10:12:
    • “恨能挑启争端,爱能遮掩一切过错。”
6 爱克服恐惧
  • 约翰一书 4:18
    • “爱里没有惧怕,爱既完全,就把惧怕除去,因为惧怕里含着刑罚,惧怕的人在爱中未得完全。
  • 罗马书 13:10:
    • “爱不加害于人,所以爱就完全了律法。”
7 爱在行动中
  • 哥林多前书 16:14:
    • “一切事情都要凭爱而行。”
  • 约翰一书 3:18:
    • “小子们哪,我们不要只在口头上爱人,或是用言语来爱人,而要在行动和实诚中爱人。”
8 爱是无条件的
  • 罗马书 5:8:
    • “但神证明了他的爱,就是我们还是罪人的时候,基督为我们死了。”
    • 即使我们拒绝神,基督仍为我们而死。
  • 以弗所书 5:25:
    • “丈夫们,你们要爱你们的妻子,正如基督爱教会,为她舍己。” ---爱是牺牲的。
9 爱是一种承诺和投入:
  • 路得记 1:16-17:
    • “但路得回答说:“不要催促我离开你,不要逼我回头不顾你,无论你往哪里去,我也要往那里去;你住哪里,我也要住哪里;你的人民就是我的人民;你的神就是我的神。你在哪里死,我也要死在那里,就是耶和华这样待我,加倍地惩罚我,只要死能把你我分开。” --- 无论发生什么事,我都会与你同在。
  • 马可福音 10:9:
    • “所以神配合的,人不可分开。” --- 这不是一种感觉,而是一种承诺。
  • 箴言 17:17:
    • “朋友时常相爱,弟兄为患难而生。”
10 爱是至上的
  • 哥林多前书 13:13:
    • “如今常存的有信、望、爱,这三样,其中最大的是爱。”
      • 信心和希望是面向未来的。
      • 爱是现在。爱能改变和战胜。
      • 爱是永恒和无时间的。
总结:
  • 圣灵的果子中的所有美德都可以归纳为爱。
  • 但爱是一个抽象的词,需要更具体地定义。
  • 爱不是一种感觉,而是一种意愿,一种决定去行动。感觉最终会产生。
  • 关键在于真理、公义、善良、仁慈、宽恕、尊重等。
  • 爱也意味着憎恶邪恶和虚伪。
  • 爱是无条件的。我们无法赢得它。如果你能赢得它,那么它就是对你工作的回报和付款。
  • 我们无论如何都会给予它,因为它是正确、善良和真实的。
祷告:
愿我们意识到上帝对我们的爱,以便我们能够用上帝所赐予我们的爱去爱人。 
愿上帝的恩典使我们能够像祂一样去爱,并在我们的行动中荣耀祂。赞美主。阿们。

Lim Liat (c) 4-7-23

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