2026-09-19

Why Do People Slowly Drift Away from God?

Why Do People Slowly Drift Away from God?

Spiritual Vigilance and Transformation Learned from the Tragedy of King Saul
<source: Ps John Liu's Sermon preached on 19/9/2026 at CityLight Community Church>

Saul did not become corrupt in one day. He drifted little by little — each small compromise carrying him further from God's will. This is not merely an Old Testament historical account, but a crucial warning for every believer running their daily spiritual race.

Point 1: Small Disobedience

In 1 Samuel 13, facing the pressure of the Philistine army and the scattering of his people, Saul acted out of anxiety and crossed the line by offering the sacrifice himself. He thought it was just a small mistake to encourage the people, but in reality, he began to believe that his own methods and timing were more reliable than God's.

"The U.S. National Transportation Safety Board found that most major air disasters are not caused by one catastrophic mistake, but by a series of small errors that accumulate into tragedy."

Spiritual life works the same way: rarely does anyone leave God overnight; it usually starts with one small compromise, followed by another. Every small act of obedience shapes our lives and our future.

Point 2: Pride Silences God's Voice

In 1 Samuel 15, God commanded Saul to completely destroy the Amalekites, yet Saul kept the best livestock and spared King Agag. When confronted by Samuel, Saul wrapped his disobedience in spiritual language: "The people saved these sheep and cattle to sacrifice to the Lord."

"To obey is better than sacrifice, and to heed is better than the fat of rams." — 1 Samuel 15:22

What God wants is never our excuses or religious rituals, but genuine, heartfelt obedience. When pride sets in due to success or experience, people stop listening to God (through Scripture and the Holy Spirit) and to loving correction from spiritual companions (church and community).

Point 3: Drifting Leads to Isolation

In his final years, Saul lived in fear and paranoia, even isolating himself from his son Jonathan. When God no longer answered him, Saul resorted to seeking guidance from a medium at Endor. When we stop obeying, we begin seeking direction in all the wrong places.

  • Sin: Separates us from God.
  • Pride: Separates us from people.
  • Isolation: We become strangers to ourselves, losing our most vital relationships.

Hope and Turnaround: From Old Testament Saul to New Testament Paul

Although Old Testament Saul ended his life in tragedy, Scripture does not end with failure. New Testament Saul (Paul) once persecuted the church, yet he met the risen Lord on the road to Damascus, surrendered, and was completely transformed.

The Hope of the Gospel: Grace brings people back to God; no one drifts beyond the reach of His grace[. The cross proves that no matter how many times we have failed, whenever we are willing to turn back, God is ready to receive us!

Daily Applications

1. Practice Daily Obedience

Obedience is a daily choice in small matters, not just one grand decision. Humble yourself before God daily.

2. Keep a Teachable Heart

Never let success or age make you unteachable. Stay open to God's Word and correction from others.

3. Continually Return to God

When you realize you are drifting, stop making excuses and repent immediately. It is never too late![

Conclusion: How We Finish Matters

What truly destroyed Saul was not a lack of ability or strong enemies, but that he slowly stopped obeying God. God cares not just about how we start, but even more about how we finish.

"I have fought the good fight, I have finished the race, I have kept the faith." — 2 Timothy 4:7

Hearing the Master's Voice: Discerning God's Guidance in Daily Life — SINGINC. MINISTRY[

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人为什麽会慢慢远离神?

Why Do People Slowly Drift Away from God? — 从扫罗王的悲剧看属灵警醒
<来源:(John Liu)刘牧师于 2026 年 9 月 1 月在城曦教会(CityLight Community Church)的讲道信息>

扫罗不是一天变坏的。他是一点一点地偏离,每一次小小的妥协,都把他带离了神的心意。这不仅是旧约的历史故事,更是每位信徒在每日属灵跑道上的警戒。

重点一:小小的不顺服 (Small Disobedience)

在《撒母耳记上》13章中,面对非利士人大军压境、百姓离散的急迫环境,扫罗因着急而选择越界——自己献祭。他以为这只是为了「稳定军心」的小错,实则是开始相信自己的方法与时间比神更可靠。

「绝大多数重大空难,并不是因为一个巨大错误,而是一连串看似微不足道的小错误积累,最后造成无法挽回的灾难。」— 美国国家运输安全委员会 (NTSB)

属灵生命也是如此:很少有人一夜之间离开神,通常都是一次小小的妥协,接着另一种妥协。每一次顺服,都在塑造我们的生命与未来。

重点二:骄傲让人听不见神 (Pride Silences God's Voice)

在《撒母耳记上》15章中,神吩咐扫罗灭绝亚玛力人,他却保留了最好的牛羊与亚甲王。面对先知撒母耳的质问,扫罗用属灵的语言来包装不顺服:「这些牛羊是百姓留下来,要献给神的。」

「听命胜于献祭;顺从胜于公羊的脂油。」— 撒母耳记上 15:22

神要的从来不是借口或宗教仪式,而是发自内心的顺服。当人因成就或经验变得骄傲时,就会停止聆听神(通过圣经、圣灵)及属灵同伴(教会与同伴)的爱心提醒。

重点三:远离神的人越来越孤单 (Drifting Leads to Isolation)

扫罗晚年陷于恐惧与猜忌中,甚至与儿子约拿单隔绝。当神不再回答他时,他竟转向隐多珥的交鬼妇人。停止顺服,就会开始在错误的地方寻找引导]。

  • 罪 (Sin): 使人与神隔绝。
  • 骄傲 (Pride): 使人与人隔绝。
  • 孤独 (Isolation): 使人与自己隔绝(失去了最重要的关系)。

翻转与盼望:从旧约扫罗到新约保罗

虽然旧约扫罗以悲剧收场,但圣经并未停留在失败。新约的扫罗(保罗)曾逼迫教会,却在大马士革路上遇见复活的主并俯伏悔改,生命完全被改变。

福音的盼望: 恩典可以把远离神的人带回来,没有任何人远离到神恩典无法触及的地方。十字架证明:只要愿意回转,神仍然愿意接纳!

生活应用 (Daily Applications)

1. 每天操练顺服

顺服是每天小小的选择,而非一次重大决定。在神面前谦卑,随祂引导。

2. 保持受教的心

不让成功或年龄使我们停止聆听。愿意接受神的话与属灵同伴爱心的提醒。

3. 常常回到神面前

发现偏离时,不寻找借口,立即悔改。回头永远不嫌晚!

总结:如何开始,更要如何结束

真正毁掉扫罗的,不是能力不足或敌人太强,而是他慢慢停止顺服神。神看重的,不只是我们如何开始,更是我们如何结束。

「那美好的仗我已经打过了,当跑的路我已经跑尽了,所信的道我已经守住了。」— 提摩太后书 4:7

2026-09-18

How to have Life, Health, Wealth and Honor - Proverbs 3



Proverb 03 Pathway to Life, Health & Riches

Lim Liat (c) 4-11-23

  • Introduction

    What is your perspectives about life?

    • 人生三观

      Life's Three Perspectives

      • 世界观/宇宙观

        Worldview

      • 人生观

        Life Perspective

      • 价值观

        Value System

  • 什么是 三观不同

    毛姆: 《月亮与六便士》Maugham: "The Moon and Sixpence"

    • 你敬畏天理, 他崇拜权威; 这是世界观不同。

      You revere God's laws, while he worships authority; this is a difference in worldview.

    • 你努力是为了理想的生活, 他努力是为了做人上人; 这是人生观不同。"

      You strive for an ideal life, he strives to be superior to others; this is a difference in life perspective."

    • 你站在良知一边, 他站在赢者一边; 这是价值观不同。

      You stand on the side of conscience, he stands on the side of the winners; this is a difference in values.

  • Methods of Wise

    Trust in the Lord Pro 3:5.

    It means to do ...

    • 1 Keep god's commandments pro 3:1
      • Get length of days, & long life & peace Pro 3:2,
      • Training of A Child According to Proverb 22v6
    • 2 Have love & faithfulness pro 3:3
      • get favour & success of God & man. Pro 3:4
    • 3 Do not lean on your own understanding. pro 3:5
      • Be not wise in your own eyes; 3:7a
    • 4 In all your ways acknowledge him, pro 3:6

      Seek God's guidance & obey God‘s commands.

      • he shall direct thy paths
    • 5 Fear the lord 3:7b,
    • 6 Turn away from evil. pro 3:7c
      • Do not plan evil against your neighbor, who dwells trustingly beside you. Pro 3:29
      • Do not contend with a man for no reason, when he has done you no harm. Pro 3:30
      • Do not envy a man of violence and do not choose any of his ways, Pro 3:31
      • for the devious person is an abomination to the LORD, but the upright are in his confidence. Pro 3:32
    • 7 Give tithe
      • Honour the Lord with thy substance, & with the first fruits of all thine increase Prov 3:9
        • So shall thy barns(Store House, Bank Accounts) be filled with plenty, Pro 3:10
        • thy presses(Production, Work) shall burst out with new wine.(Good Products, Productivity, Overflowing). Pro 3:10
    • 8 Accept discipline
      • My son, do not despise the LORD's discipline or be weary of his reproof, Pro 3:11
        • for the LORD reproves him whom he loves, as a father the son in whom he delights. Pro 3:12
    • 9 Has generosity
      • Do not withhold good from those to whom it is due, when it is in your power to do it. Pro 3:27
        • Do not say to your neighbor, "Go, and come again, tomorrow I will give it"--when you have it with you. Pro 3:28
    • 10 Be humble
      • but to the humble he gives favor. Pro 3:34
        • Not Proud
          • Toward the scorners God is scornful, Pro 3:34
    • healing to your flesh & refreshment to your bones. Pro 3:8
    • See Also
      • Basic principles for living well - proverbs 21
      • 22 Principles for A Good & Successful Person from Proverbs 22
  • Values of Wisdom

    What do you value?

    • 1 More Valuable Than Possessions
      • for the gain from her is better from silver and gold. Pro 3:14
        • Blessed is the one who finds wisdom, and the one who gets understanding, Pro 3:13
      • more precious than jewels, and nothing you desire can compare with her. Pro 3:15
        • Long life on right hand Pro 3:16;
        • riches & honor on Left Pro 3:16
    • 2 Full of Life
      • Her ways are ways of pleasantness, and all her paths are peace. Pro 3:17
        • She is a tree of life to those who lay hold of her;Pro 3:18
        • those who hold her fast are called blessed. Pro 3:18
    • 3 Creativity
      • The LORD by wisdom founded the earth;
        • by understanding he established the heavens; Pro 3:19
      • by his knowledge the deeps broke open, and the clouds drop down the dew. Pro 3:20
    • 4 Security
      • keep wisdom & discretion Pro 3:21
        • they will be
          • life for your soul and
          • adornment for your neck. Pro 3:22
        • Then you will
          • walk on your way securely, and
          • your foot will not stumble. Pro 3:23
        • If you lie down
          • you will not be afraid;
          • your sleep will be sweet. Pro 3:24
    • 5 Peace
      • Do not be afraid of sudden terror or of the ruin of the wicked, when it comes, Pro 3:25
        • for the LORD will be your confidence and will keep your foot from being caught. Pro 3:26
    • 6 Blessings
      • Wicked
        • The LORD's curse is on the house of the wicked Pro 3:33,
      • Righteous
        • but he blesses the dwelling of the righteous. Pro 3:33
        • The Righteous - Wisdom from Proverbs 11-13
    • 7 Honor
      • The wise will inherit honor Pro 3:35
        • but fools get disgrace. Pro 3:35