2025-05-28

Growing in Love and Wisdom (Philippians 1:9-10)

  Devotion: Growing in Love and Wisdom (Philippians 1:9-10)

"And it is my prayer that your love may abound more and more, with knowledge and all discernment, so that you may approve what is excellent, and so be pure and blameless for the day of Christ."


Context & Call to Abound in Love

Paul’s letter to the Philippians is a joyful exhortation to live as citizens of heaven. In these verses, he prays for their love to grow intentionally—not just in emotion, but anchored in knowledge (deep understanding of God’s truth) and discernment (practical wisdom to navigate life). This combination ensures our love is both genuine and effective, aligning with God’s purposes.


Key Insights

  1. Love Must Be Rooted in Truth
    We’re called to love God and others (Matt. 22:37-39), but love untethered from wisdom can lead to harm. For example, enabling a gambler’s addiction by giving money “out of love” fails to address the root issue. True love seeks lasting good, even when it requires hard choices.
  2. Discernment Guards and Guides
    Wisdom helps us “approve what is excellent”—to prioritize eternal value over temporary fixes. In a broken world, even well-meaning actions can perpetuate cycles of sin or exploitation. Discernment protects our hearts (Prov. 4:23) and empowers us to steward resources wisely.
  3. Purity Through Wise Love
    Paul links love-driven discernment to being “pure and blameless” for Christ’s return. Blamelessness isn’t perfection but integrity—acting with a clear conscience, knowing our love aligns with God’s heart.

A Cautionary Tale: Love Without Discernment

Personal Example:
After a baptism service, a newly baptized man approached me privately for financial help, appealing to the Christmas spirit. My desire to love generously led me to give—but later, I discovered he’d manipulated multiple people, using baptism as a tool for sympathy. While my heart was pure, I lacked discernment. Jesus’ words in Matthew 10:16 remind us: “Be wise as serpents and innocent as doves.” Love requires both compassion and caution.


Application Questions

  1. Growth Check: In what relationships or habits is God calling you to grow in knowledge (e.g., studying Scripture) or discernment (e.g., seeking counsel)?
  2. Hard Choices: When have you prioritized “feeling loving” over doing what’s truly loving? How can you adjust?
  3. Guardrails: How do you test requests for help (e.g., financial, emotional) against biblical wisdom? Who holds you accountable for such decisions?
  4. Eternal Lens: What “good” thing might God be asking you to surrender to pursue something excellent (e.g., time, resources, relationships)?

Prayer

Heavenly Father,
Multiply my love, but anchor it in Your truth. Teach me to discern what honors You, not just what feels good. Guard me from deception, and give me courage to choose excellence over ease. Shape my heart to reflect Christ’s purity, that I may meet Him with joy, not regret. In His wise and blameless name, Amen.


Final Thought

Love is the engine; wisdom is the steering wheel. Together, they lead us toward Christ’s light in a world of shadows.

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Philippians 1:9-10 ESV

And it is my prayer that your love may abound more and more,

with knowledge and all discernment,

so that you may approve what is excellent,

and so be pure and blameless for the day of Christ

 

#1 We are to grow in love - for God and for Others. Those are obvious.

#2 The key is in the how - Paul tells us to grow in knowledge and wisdom/discernment in our acts of love.

#3 On the one hand, as we love rightly, we experience the benefits of our actions, on ourselves and on others.

#4 On the other hand, we are to love with wisdom that we may give the maximum and effective help to others.

There are many people with good intentions, but without wisdom, they inflict more harm to those they want to help.

As an example, giving and lending money to the gamblers or the spendthrift instead of helping them to correct their addictions.

#5 In today's world of scams and exploitation, we are to be on our guard against people who want to use love to cheat us and exploit us.

I have a personal experience from my younger days. Our church had a baptism service. After the baptism, a just-baptised person approached me privately to ask me to lend or give money to him. I thought that since he had just been baptised, his needs must be real, and also, then was the Christmas season, so I happily gave me a sum of money. He asked me not the tell others. Afterwards, a brother approached me and asked me if that person had asked me for money. He said he also approached him for money. He felt we had been cheated. It turned out that the person went to many for money, and his baptism was just a show to gain our trust.

#6 So, we need wisdom and discernment to know what the excellent things to do are and not be cheated or do substandard work.

#7 All I can say about the cheating experience is that I acted with a pure heart of love, but not blameless, as I should be wiser.

Jesus reminded that to be harmless as doves but wise as serpents.

 

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