Connecting the apparent unconnected verses of Proverbs 19 give us the wisdom for a living a successful life. While wealth is so desirable, getting it swiftly through devious means does no work. Only through the hard road of getting knowledge, following God's commands with hard work will make it. But then, there is something better than wealth. That is love. Life is more than oneself. There are others to care for. A meaningful life begins with the fear of God. Success also comes to finding a good spouse, having a good family, doing parenting well and having good children. Read on to discover the how to.Most people think of Proverbs as a loosely connected set of quotes of wisdom. So we just study a few verses from each chapter, being not able to find the connection. However, such a connection can be discovered and we can find great wisdom from it. Consider Proverbs 19.
Proverbs 19 - The Wisdom for Successful Living
The key verse for the chapter is verse 1. It is better to be poor and upright than trying to be rich by lying and cheating; such acts are foolish. See Reading Reflectively to Get Better Understanding Using Proverbs 19:1 as an Example.
Verse 2 highlights that speeds from cheating will fail to achieve the wealth that one so desires. Success comes through the way of acquiring knowledge and so forth as shown in the table below.
Keys
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Verses
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Interpretations
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1 Integrity is better than Wealth
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Pro 19:1 Better is a poor person who walks in his integrity than one who is crooked in speech and is a fool.
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(1) It is better to poor and upright than trying to be rich by lying and cheating; such acts are foolish.
(2) It is better to be uprightly poor than a rich cheater(one who get rich by illegal means) or a rich fool (one who inherits his wealth and could not keep them but waste them).
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2 Speed does not assure success -Doing the right things rightly is.
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Pro 19:2 Desire without knowledge is not good, and whoever makes haste with his feet misses his way.
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If we link up to up with the previous verse about not getting rich deviously, then it is about getting knowledge first to know how to provide valuable products or services to get wealth. If we just want to get rich quickly by moving too fast without acquiring wisdom first, then we will get lost. |
3 A fool blames God for his errors.- Don't blame but learn from errors
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Pro 19:3 When a man's folly brings his way to ruin, his heart rages against the LORD.
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Now that the fool who tries to cheat to be rich failed miserably, he blames God instead! How could a God who claims to love him did not save him from his ruins! Of the two meanings proposed earlier, it is clear that (1) fits the context better. It is about the foolish one who tries to be rich by lying. |
4 Wealth Attracts - Poverty Repels
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Pro 19:4 Wealth brings many new friends, but a poor man is deserted by his friend.
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If he has obtained his wealth in the right way, getting knowledge first and following the path of righteousness, he will be rich and will have many new friends (good and bad kinds). However, the fool who ruined his life is now deserted by his old friends, even his only best friend. |
5 Lying brings Punishments
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Pro 19:5 A false witness will not go unpunished, and he who breathes out lies will not escape.
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The fool changes not his ways; he can't because he blame God and others for his failures. Now he continues to try to get wealth by being a false witness; such as giving good reviews and testimonies for poor quality products or offerings; false advertising, bad mouthing of others, or hoaxes on the internet. |
6 Generosity Attracts - Both good & bad, so watch out.
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Pro 19:6 Many seek the favor of a generous man, and everyone is a friend to a man who gives gifts.
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In contrast, a wealthy and generous man will attract lots of friends. But there is no assurance that those people who come because of your gifts can be your good friends. |
7 Poverty Repels - Even their siblings
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Pro 19:7 All a poor man's brothers hate him; how much more do his friends go far from him! He pursues them with words but does not have them.
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Not only the poor have no friend, even his brothers hate him. Even if he tries to charm them with his words and big promises, they ignore him. |
8 Wisdom brings Success
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Pro 19:8 Whoever gets sense loves his own soul; he who keeps understanding will discover good.
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So, the lesson we learn in life is about getting wisdom and understanding so that one can live a successful life. |
9 Wisdom - Lie Not - Honesty is Best Policy
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Pro 19:9 A false witness will not go unpunished, and he who breathes out lies will perish.
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A common sense of wisdom is not to lie. This is the foundation to start one's life. |
10 Rich + Fool Don't Mix
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Pro 19:10 It is not fitting for a fool to live in luxury, much less for a slave to rule over princes.
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A fool living with great wealth is not right. It is a bad testimony and misleads others ---- getting wealth without wisdom. It is like a servant commanding his master. It is an upside-down world. This is a repeated emphasis on richness must be acquired through acquiring wisdom first. |
11 Slow to Anger
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Pro 19:11a Good sense makes one slow to anger,
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Successful man control his emotion well. He is not quick temper. |
12 Be Forgiving
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Pro 19:11b and it is his glory to overlook an offense.
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He also forgives an offense. Life is about moving ahead and not be trapped by the past. |
13 Boss is powerful - Be on His good side
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A king's wrath is like the growling of a lion, but his favor is like dew on the grass. Pro 19:12
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A man of influence has the power to harm you or be good to you. Take care to be on his good side. |
14 Foolish Son
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Pro 19:13a A foolish son is ruin to his father,
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Hence, a wise father teaches his sons. A good son learns and acquires knowledge. |
15 The Good Wife - Quarrel Not
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Pro 19:13b and a wife's quarreling is a continual dripping of rain.
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Nagging does not change behavior. It creates more distance between spouses. |
She is a gift from God
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Pro 19:14 House and wealth are inherited from fathers, but a prudent wife is from the LORD.
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A Good Wife is God's Blessing. Pray and ask God for the right one. See Proverbs 31 about the life of a good wife. |
16 Be not Lazy - It brings hunger
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Pro 19:15 Slothfulness casts into a deep sleep, and an idle person will suffer hunger.
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The destructive power of laziness is not immediately seen. Failures creep in slowly. |
17 Godly Living
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Pro 19:16 Whoever keeps the commandment keeps his life; he who despises his ways will die.
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Obeying God's commandments, stay on the path of integrity is the best policy for sustained success. He has a long and secured life. Do not think we can outsmart and cheat God. Galatians 6:7 |
18 Charity - They are God's people - God is a Rewarder
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Pro 19:17 Whoever is generous to the poor lends to the LORD, and he will repay him for his deed.
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What we do to the poor, we also do to God. God is a rewarder. We actually serve God through serving people. Matthew 25:40 "The King will reply, 'Truly I tell you, whatever you did for one of the least of these brothers and sisters of mine, you did for me.' |
19 Parenting - Discipline
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Pro 19:18a Discipline your son, for there is hope;
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Discipline is the way to save our children that behave not. |
Pro 19:18b do not set your heart on putting him to death.
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Not disciplining them when needed is like condemning them death. You are destroying their future. |
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20 Let the Consequences do the discipline
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Pro 19:19 A man of great wrath will pay the penalty, for if you deliver him, you will only have to do it again.
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The most effective form of discipline is let the consequences be the teacher. It helps them to make wise decisions. |
21 Listen & Learn - Don't say I know already
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Pro 19:20 Listen to advice and accept instruction, that you may gain wisdom in the future.
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Growth and progress are about learning new things. When we said we know already, we may have stopped learning. Be humble. Let Steve Jobs say, "Stay hungry. Stay foolish.“ |
22 God In Control
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Pro 19:21 Many are the plans in the mind of a man, but it is the purpose of the LORD that will stand.
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You can't outsmart God - back to verse 1 - don't try to cheat your way to wealth Just obey God is the best policy. See v16. |
23 Love is more valuable than Wealth
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Pro 19:22 What is desired in a man is steadfast love, and a poor man is better than a liar.
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Go for something more valuable than wealth. Poor but loving is better than a rich liar. |
24 Fear of the Lord - It brings peace and security
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Pro 19:23 The fear of the LORD leads to life, and whoever has it rests satisfied; he will not be visited by harm.
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The most important lesson of all is Fear and Obey the God. He is protected from harms. He is contented in life. |
25 Don't be Over-loving - It paralyzes
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Pro 19:24 The sluggard buries his hand in the dish and will not even bring it back to his mouth.
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You should not do everything for your children or someone in need that they do not want to take care of themselves and will always be a dependent person. It explains the famous saying, "You can bring a horse to the water but you cannot force it to drink." |
26 Coaching is for Both Simple & Wise
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Pro 19:25a Strike a scoffer, and the simple will learn prudence;
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Teach the simple-minded scoffer to know the truth and to give respect. |
Pro 19:25b reprove a man of understanding, and he will gain knowledge.
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Man of wisdom will appreciate your correction done in good faith. |
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27 Honoring Our Parents
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Pro 19:26 He who does violence to his father and chases away his mother is a son who brings shame and reproach.
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From being a good spouse, a good parent to honoring our own parents and being a good example for our own children. |
28 How does a fool come about?- A Checklist for Us
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Pro 19:27 Cease to hear instruction, my son, and you will stray from the words of knowledge.
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Are we humble and open-minded to learn |
29 Punishments are for sure.
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Pro 19:28 A worthless witness mocks at justice, and the mouth of the wicked devours iniquity.
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Don't be a false witness and a liar. Such actions are condemning justice. |
Pro 19:29 Condemnation is ready for scoffers, and beating for the backs of fools.
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Two kinds of behaviors are bad and will be punished. The one who laughs at justice and truth with his lies and the fool who knows not what is right and wrong and do it wrongly. |
- Wealth is powerful and is to be desired.
But it must be gained by the way of righteousness. (Mat 6:33).
There is no instant or speedy solution but by the way of acquiring knowledge and hard work. - Love is Better than Wealth.
Even though wealth is powerful, love is even better. Helping others in need is recognized by God as helping him and they will be rewarded. - The Fear of God is Best - Fear in the sense of respect, worship and awe so that we may be careful to do His will with our best efforts.
- Always Learning and progressing.
- Lies Not. Give no false testimonies.
- Be Not Lazy.
- Be a Good Spouse - not nagging.
- Be a Good Parent - teaching and discipline children with consequences
- Be a Good Child - honoring parents
- Be a Good Teacher - teaching the simple and the wise
Lim Liat (c) 23 June 2017
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